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Because it's free!!

We receive/send more sensible quotes from/to  people but majority of us are absolutely senseless, because forwarding a quote is free!! We receive/send online wishes for every occasion but majority us don't turn up to meet, because wishing online is free!! We feel proud of our country but majority of us don't ever try to make it proud, because feeling proud is free!! We get/give lot of suggestions but majority of the us have never even did any such thing before, because suggesting something is free!! We fight over issues on social media but majority of us could never even act on our family issues, because posting comments is free. We criticize something done but majority of us never even try to do it in real, because criticizing is free. We always watch sport and judge the players fitness but never even ran a 100 meters in life, because judging is free. We always lecture about great thoughts/ideologies socially but majority of us never even follow t...

You can ignore anything but this Post!!

Ironically relevant thoughts of mine which I put on paper today, hope which might make sense. You can buy anything but Trust You can sell anything but Self-respect You can cheat anything but Death You can meet anyone but God You can adulterate anything but Fire You can steal anything but Knowledge You can stop anything but Time You can create anything but Life You can kill anything but Love You can force anything but Sex You can catch anything but Dreams You can repay anyone but Parents You can deny anyone but Friends You can rise from anywhere but Ashes You can drive anywhere but Graveyard You can hide anything but Truth You can postpone anything but Ageing You can holdback anything but Talent You can escape anything but Sleep On a lighter note You can reply anyone but wife LOL..!!

This Tangled Society Might Strangle You..!!

I can’t trust a society where Government run wine shops but Private run schools I can’t trust a society where  Training to kill people is free (Military) but Training to save people is costly (Doctors)     I can’t trust a society where Violence is considered as power but Silence is considered as weakness I can’t trust a society where Religious TV channels are aired for free but Informative TV channels are not I can’t trust a society where Restaurants provide internet for free but charge for water I can’t trust a society where News is created rather than being shown as what it is I can’t trust a society where People run away from rain but the same people pay for it in resorts to dance I can’t trust a society where Education being bought rather than being taught I can’t trust a society where The same government which runs advertisements not to smoke approves tobacco industries I can’t trust a society...

I am a 2 days Indian..!!

I appreciate foreign brand clothes and ignore Indian weaver’s products But, still very proud that I am Indian. I love to work as hard I can for foreign companies and never work if get a Government Job But, still very proud that I am Indian. I love to spend any amount to watch a foreign movie and never watch Indian art forms even for free But, still very proud that I am Indian. I spend a lot on fast foods and pizzas but never purchase a farmer product without bargaining But, still very proud that I am Indian. I worship every possible god/person I can but use them only to show off myself and/or create chaos But, still very proud that I am Indian. I am very passionate about love story movies but never hesitate to kill anyone who loved my daughter But, still very proud that I am Indian. I blame government for collecting “Swachh Bharat” tax but never throw waste in dustbin But, still very proud that I am Indian. I wanted to leave my country as soo...

Mother , Special than any other..!!

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Every mothers day we see tons and tons of posts on social media these days, however we see a lot of abandoned old couples struggling to get some help to cross a road. According to a survey, there is 69% increase in old-age residents in last 6 years?. So where we are heading in the name of development, nuclear families and ultra modern life style. So , my question is Where are all these Sons&Daughters who love their mother and father has gone?  Where are they partying when their parents really need their hand? Why is the love limited to your digital world? How many times you are actually talking to them? What actually you know about what they need form you? People are very busy loving their mother online and in contrast to that , they even get irritated when his/her mother calls twice when they are late to home. So, where your so called love had gone? Not necessarily you need to communicate your feelings to your mother, she can read your thoughts and feelings ...

The Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do?

( This article was written by AMY MORIN , however I published in this blog to help this blog readers to find it easily as this is strongly recommended for every reader, Trust me it is worth every second you spend on it.!! ) Mentally strong people have healthy habits. They manage their emotions, thoughts, and behaviors in ways that set them up for success in life. Check out these things that mentally strong people don’t do so that you too can become more mentally strong. 1. They Don’t Waste Time Feeling Sorry for Themselves Mentally strong people don’t sit around feeling sorry about their circumstances or how others have treated them. Instead, they take responsibility for their role in life and understand that life isn’t always easy or fair. 2. They Don’t Give Away Their Power They don’t allow others to control them, and they don’t give someone else power over them. They don’t say things like, “My boss makes me feel bad,” because they understand that they are in control over the...

Success is a Failure, Failure is a Success

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Success is a failure when you fail to handle success Failure is also a success when you succeed to handle failure..!! There are lot many theories, stories and books which explains how to deal with failure but there are one more issue that is usually ignored but has 10 folds more dangerous than failure. If you are wondering what it is? It is called Success..!! This article tries to shed some light on the above ignored issue called “Handling Success” along with common reiteration of “Failure” importance. Success Lead to Failure: Once you succeed, you should be able to handle that success and if you fail to handle it, that success might cause more destruction than a failure. Such is the situation with many people, they are ready to handle failure while they cannot withstand the effects of success. Just think of NOKIA, which was ruling the mobile world till touch screen/android hit the market. They were busy in enjoying success and ignored the market and failed to...

Ram Allah Jesus..!!

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Is God one of the Man's Blunders or Is Man one of the God's Blunders..!! -  Nietzsche R am A llah J esus, this is the abbreviation I have given to my name (RAJ) when i have stopped believing in idols and names of gods and started believing in a Creator where names and forms doesn't matter. With in all these years of my life , what I have realized is that my life actually took a start towards progress when I stopped relying blindly on idolized Gods and started relying on myself for anything I do. You can be completely Atheist, but i strongly believe when there is a Creation then there is a Creator. The so called Creator might not actually designed you or any creature as it is , However life  might have been started somewhere which is changing the forms continuously .  More than the basic requirements of life such as food , water and shelter , Human now a days require religion to live. It is one of the man made disastrous practice. Whatever the religion y...

Change Thoughts Instead Of Calendars..

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We have experienced 365 days of this year with all feelings in it.. The good, The bad, The Happy, The Sad,The Love,The Hate and more or less of every feeling in every day and every moment of life. Now we are getting ready to experience a new year/365 days/8760 Hours/525,600 minutes/31,536,00 seconds. We have Ample of Moments to experience Problems to solve Opportunities to create Feelings to express People to meet Places to explore Food to taste Which means each and every day, every second of the new year ahead is a new moment for us. Sadly, Instead celebrating everyday our life, more of us just celebrate only 1st Jan of every year and then live with same life, same thoughts, same problems , same home except a NEW CALENDAR. Changing a calendar doesn't change anything in an year or in a life, Changing your thoughts does. This help an individual to create something new, break his comfort zone, solve his problems. Whoever or whatever the ideas changed the world we...

Think like a thief

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Hello everyone, I hope you are doing good in your life . If not then you have to think like a thief at some points in your life which makes you feel better and do good some great things in your daily life as well. Don;t trust me ? go through below provided and i hope you change your decision.. :-) I will start with a line " The only difference between Thieves and unsuccessful people is that , Thieves do right things for a wrong reason but unsuccessful people neither do right things or have wrong reason". So they remain same all their life . There are many things in our life which we need to lead a happy life . Let me relate the things we should do by thinking like a thief which makes our life easier . The qualities which you should have to succeed in your life are generally concentration, a plan with a deadline, daring personality, self confidence.. Blah blah blah...!! However, did you ever observe that a thief has all the above mentioned qualities in him. He plans...

My Father wanted to kill me.. I ask why not? : A Girl

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The title might be kind of controversial , Only because if you cant see the truth or hail it. The below story is of a girl who tried to explain this society , why her father tried to kill her when she is still in her mothers womb, Hi everyone, am a girl and I don't want to specify the name because "A Girl" is enough for this society to take it for granted and assume as many things as they wanted and it doesn't matter what your name is. This story is based on my fathers conversation with me when I was in my mothers womb. My father is a average government employee, a common man like any of middle class man , who walks a lot of distance just to buy vegetables cheaper than nearby supermarket. He was one among them who buy cloths for family for entire year when ever the sale starts and who tries to squeeze the paste out of the tube which he bought an year ago on to a bald brush which has only some bristles left. When I was in my mothers womb, he used to talk to me...

Timeline troubles..

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Around 2 billion people use Facebook on daily basis and 4.5 billions likes and comments are generated daily. This makes Facebook topper of the list among the social networking sites. There are certain amount of people who back up Facebook saying that it is used to share valuable information and connects people around the world. However, There is also an other side of coin where it is utilized for unsocial causes. Whatever the facts are, Some may like it some may hate it but definitely some one can never ignore it. I personally have an account and also an active user over there. Earlier it was very simple and well utilized platform but as days are passing by it has many unnecessary updates on my timeline. There might be various reasons but the fact is that i have to go through a number of hurdles in between to see some posts which actually make sense. Some of them are listed below I have to like Flag photo which is shared by some unknown group to prove am "True Patriot...

Human Being to Being Human...!!!

We were here as human beings from generations and in course of living our lives there occurred many changes in our lives and lifestyles which may be good or bad , but all we have to to is accept the changes and try yo live with it. Else, as Darwin quoted "Only the fittest will survive". We grew up whether by identifying or ignoring many changes, out of which i tried to mention below. Have a look...!! Somewhere between, Having enough space for cattle at home to Not even having space for parents, we grew up. Somewhere between, Going tour away from to Coming home as a tour, we grew up. Somewhere between, Playing in rain to Paying to dance in rain at a resort, we grew up. Somewhere between, Being alone without friends to Feeling alone in a group of friends, we grew up. Somewhere between, Meeting new friends to Losing old mates, We grew up. Somewhere between, Talking directly to friends to Secretly checking their status, We grew up. So...

Its Not your Closet but Mindset Matters

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Human nature is very complicated when compared to any other animals in this world. That is because every animal has given pre-loaded characters which are specific for their existence (Like a deer ability to run, Like a lion's power of paws to kill etc). It means they live with the same characters till the end, but when it comes to human beings they have given a powerful brain which is completely empty so that it is up-to an individual to choose the characters he want which ultimately creates and endless confusion if they doesn't care properly about what is going in. Its mindset that matters... Carefully choose your thoughts because what that goes in will be stored and you will be able to use only them when it is required, Like a closet of your clothes. All the thoughts you absorb are like all the cloths you buy. so when a situation arises you will be able to use one of the thoughts in your brain like when a function arrives you choose a costume from your closet. Sadl...

Counting life on Facebook likes...!!

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Every body have a problem , this is the common dialogue one can hear from the each and every other when they tell they have got a problem. However, i personally believe that only some have actual problems while the rest either feel that they have a problem or they create one for themselves out of nowhere.  It isn't a problem if you don't have shoe, It is when you don't have feet It isn't a problem if your parents scold you, It is when you don't have parents It isn't a problem if you don't have earphones, It is when you require a machine to hear It isn't a problem if you don't have a I Phone, It is when you don't have people to call in it. It isn't a problem if you don't have a BMW , It is when you don't have a path to travel It isn't a problem if you fail, It is when you quit. Observe the degree of variation in the above prior and latter line? The prior states what you assume as a problem but the later states wha...

Definitely Indefinite Marketers

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Everything is being marketed these days, am very concerned because even God is being one of them. Don't believe? Let me give you an example.. Common people: I wanna make my skin white. Marketer A : Only Fair and lovely can make it done Marketer B : Use Ponds fairness cream, else forget what is white Common people : I wanna reduce weight Marketer A : Only our Sauna Belt can do it very fast Marketer B : Use our weight loss Powder, there is no need of one sweat drop. Common People :I wanna sleep well Marketer A : Use our cotton mattress, you feel like sleeping in clouds Marketer B : Our mattress made of 100% synthetic material, softer than cotton. Common people : I wanna eat well. Marketer A : Come to our hotel, you feel like eating at home Marketer B : Ever tasted heavenly food? you will find it here Common People : I need a good job Marketer A: Sir, We can do it for you. Register with us. Marketer B : We are most trusted in jobs market, you c...

When the buffalo was killed....

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There are many people out there who don't know what exactly doing in their life.While they say they are living ,, I would remind them that they are just existing not living. I have observed many people around me, They just live the way it is irrespective of the ideas they have to live. So called Successful people are those who in contrast to the normal people do some abnormal things which may not yield great results but definitely gives you new experience with a lot of curiosity to live your life. While i was browsing through internet for various motivational articles, i have came across the story which was similar to the people i mentioned above. "Once a Sage with his disciple was travelling , they felt thirsty and looking for water all the way. Meanwhile they came across a farm which was not being cultivated , nearby they found a home. So they decided to go to there and request for some water. As soon as they knocked the door a man with dirty clothes opened the door a...

Story of a Selfish Shirt

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There is a saying "The actual character of a human is Selfishness , Altruistic nature is what just covers it". Everybody is selfish right from the day you remember , that character is always lurked with in and the outcome and frequency is only what varies with in us.  The degree of variation might be different but no one is exception for this character. The so called noble people are actually who had a strong Altruistic layer over selfishness". >You may want more chocolates than your brother >You may want more toys than your sister >You may want more share of the profit >You may want more credit for a win The more continues with glory,money, fame, years to live etc etc. In the same way every one more or less end up blames other as easily as they do a mistake. The man is so selfish that he easily blames someone or something for his mistakes and failures. Even after doing their job correctly,  >You blame cab driver if you mis...

Water,Potato and Cement

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I have been there many number of times,  >Every time i visited it gave me lot of confidence to solve issues >Every time i visited it gave me a hope to live >Every time i visited it gave a power to fight >Every time i visited it made me stronger >Every time i visited it gave me a reason to be happy with what i have.. Its is not any religious place, it is not any psychology center, it is nothing but a CANCER HOSPITAL.. Yes, You heard it right it is a cancer hospital which made me what am now. There I saw the worst situations one can even imagine... I spent many sleepless nights on the rocks beside hospital, I spent many lunch-less afternoons before the doctor's cabin to get reports, I woke up many hopeless mornings... I was just losing hope day by day... One fine day I thought of visiting entire hospital , eventually which brought back my hope and made me strong enough to lead a fearless life, because there i saw what actual pain would look ...

Dinosaur's Diary

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There are many differences between animals and humans , but the only difference that makes a huge difference is that "Animal kills for need, human kills for greed". According to a survey the number of extinct species is growing day by day. Out of 44,838 species , 905 species were become extinct and around 16000 species are endangered.That definitely means we killed around half of the species around us , it not just killing to survive ourselves but we kill for so many unnecessary reasons and we kill until they become extinct. We kill them for Fun, call it hunting ... there were a couple of lines i came across while browsing , it says "Until a lion is able to tell his story , every hunter remains a hero"..., which means a lot. There are some unfortunate situations where we kill them to  Peel off the skin for belts Get their Nails to wear around the neck Cut off their tusks to make Billiard balls and piano keys You make them sit in a zoo f...