Counting life on Facebook likes...!!

Every body have a problem , this is the common dialogue one can hear from the each and every other when they tell they have got a problem.

However, i personally believe that only some have actual problems while the rest either feel that they have a problem or they create one for themselves out of nowhere. 

• It isn't a problem if you don't have shoe, It is when you don't have feet
• It isn't a problem if your parents scold you, It is when you don't have parents
• It isn't a problem if you don't have earphones, It is when you require a machine to hear
• It isn't a problem if you don't have a I Phone, It is when you don't have people to call in it.
• It isn't a problem if you don't have a BMW , It is when you don't have a path to travel
• It isn't a problem if you fail, It is when you quit.

Observe the degree of variation in the above prior and latter line? The prior states what you assume as a problem but the later states what actual problem is.

Did you ever feel bad for not having I phone? Then think of having it but with empty contact list with no one to call. Now imagine what is a problem? Is it about phone or is it about not having people? This isn't just regarding a phone or people but it is about validating a problem if it actually is a one. 

Now-a-days, The threshold of the problem has been decreased. People are being depressed for not having a good mobile, for being scold by parents, for failing in a examination. The one who commits suicide for being scolded by parents should think of the one who doesn't have parents.

Likes doesn't makes life...!!

The problem with people is that everything is a problem for them. Assume you have to travel somewhere by a bus. Now here is the problem , To catch the bus and it doesn't ends when you catch it. Now your problem is to get a seat in the bus. Once you get a seat your problem is to get a window seat. Then by chance if you get a window seat your problem is that bus doesn't have a TV for any kind of entertainment. Now just validate the problems you have all through this journey? Is it Catching bus? Is it Getting a Seat ? Is it not having a TV?

                                                                                            When you are waiting for a bus you don't even care if it has a TV in it. You don't even think of getting a seat by window. what all you did is upgrading your problem unnecessarily which was solved as soon as you got the bus. 

Everyone is upgrading their problems which were already solved in someway or the other. People are being so crazy that they are counting their happiness by the number of Facebook likes they get, this is reported as a huge threat to mankind behavior by some major health organizations in the world. Those people should understand that a Facebook like or comment doesn't define your quality of life and that is not all eligible to be assumed as a problem 

Hence,Just before you think you have a problem, stop for a moment and validate if it actually a problem or just an assumption. Validating the effects of what you believe as a problem might help you in confirming if it is an actual problem.

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