#Think of her #Think of Freedom

Sometimes i wonder if living as a woman is easy or tough?

Some say, its very easy for a girl to lead her life.. they add some theories to it like, Till she get married a father takes care of her and then it is husbands turn to play the role of her father till the end.

Sometimes people also say that "A guy work very hard to settle in his life, then there comes a girl who get married to that settled guy indirectly gets settled as well.

Here in India, they say "people work very hard in terms of education , Passport , Visa etc to go to abroad ( USA, UK, Australia etc).... But a girl can go just by marrying a settled guy over there. With out any hard work"...??

They say "Guys need to earn what he wants, But a girl gets it done with a smile".

I wondered if this is really true or is there something in between which is hidden by girls under that smile. Then i started observing many girls around me, say friends , colleagues, classmates etc...

I was really shocked to discover some facts beyond that smile then i thanked god for letting me to be a Guy... as i came to know being a woman is the toughest role to play.

Below are some of the facts i came to know..

• If she talks to everybody she is a bitch, if she doesn't talk we call it attitude
• If she wear short clothes she is characterless, If she doesn't we call her old fashioned
• If she is perfect you want her in bed, if not you treat her as alien
• If she is girlfriend she is special, if she is wife she is a slave
• If she lie she is a cheater, if not she is not diplomatic

Did you ever observe that many of us (Including me) have such presumptions. This ideology is being incorporated into us even with out our knowledge. Where are we heading in this so called modern civilization.

Everyone,

• wants the beautiful skin but no one is cares for feelings under it.
• wants to marry a virgin but no one wants to wait till marriage for the night
• wants to sleep with others wife but no one wants his own to be like that

Did you ever care what she feel, what she think, what she want? i would say there are very few who might understand this and support her through all the way. who might be able to see what she feels under that beautiful skin, who might look beyond her smile and understand her feelings.

I observed that many of them,

• Leave their career for family
• Kill their desires
• Forget their freedom
• Ignore their loving family
• Change her habits

In fact i would say she leaves herself behind and come with you. I can bet none of the guys can even imagine doing it... Because it costs the most expensive term on this planet called "Freedom".

To be continued in next article...

#Think of her #Think of Freedom

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