Think of Her Think of Freedom - Part2

In continuation to the Part 1 of Think of her Think of Freedom published on 14th April.

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• Did you ever wonder why you are so comfortable at your home than the others?
• Did you ever wonder why always ones favorite dish is made by their mother?
• Did you ever wonder why everyone's Hero is their Father?
• Did you ever wonder why your best friend is your sister?
• Did you ever wonder why you stand by your brother to feel safe?

I have gone through all these questions and while searching for an answer i came across a term called "Zero Thought Process", where your brain is active but it is thinking nothing. I could relate this to teh above situation to get some relative answers

You are born with Zero thoughts in your brain, so what else you see , you eat , you feel are going to be the first and they are tend to remain as the best for rest of your life...

Now lets go into the same questions again and apply this theory..
Did you ever wonder why you are so comfortable at your home than the others?

>>Because you that is the place you have been there from the time when you even don't about a home.
Did you ever wonder why always ones favorite dish is made by their mother?

>> Because that dish was the first to you before you know there is "PIZZA"
Did you ever wonder why everyone's Hero is their Father?

>>Because he is the first one to fight for you before you saw "SYLVESTER STALLONE"
Did you ever wonder why your best friend is your sister?

>>Because she is the one who shared all your mischief acts before you started going to "SCHOOL" 
Did you ever wonder why you stand by your brother to feel safe?

>>Because he is the one stood for you at all situations even before you got a gang in "COLLEGE"

!!!...Respect..!!!

Now, Just imagine if you had tasted many foods before having your mothers dish? Saw Stallone before your father fighting for you? have a friend to share before your sister? have a gang to protect you even before your brother???, Then i bet , none of you feel the same towards your family as same before if you have seen or experienced something before they introduced it to you.

VERY HARD TO ASSUME?????? But Let me tell you..
This is what happens when A GIRL MOVES TO GROOM"S PLACE WHEN SHE GETS MARRIED....She already have seen (May be much more than) what you and your family are going to provide (Might be Love, Comfort, Freedom, Respect anything)...

Therefore, I compared BRIDE to NEW BORN CHILD because they both are new in the family as far as their life considered. Only difference is Child have seen or experienced nothing before and BRIDE has many thoughts regarding them.

Unfortunately, BRIDE is not cared as much as a CHILD in home (In consideration of comfort).

This is a very serious problem in a modern day civilization which lead us to "Nuclear Family" Concept, Which is not good for the couple and parents as well.

Hence,We need to..
Understand her feelings
Provide some care
Adjust according to her habits
Respect her
Most importantly, We should give "FREEDOM" to her..

Not only because she left her family but she left herself behind and now she is a CHILD in your family....

#With all the respect to Women
#Think of HER , Think of Freedom

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