Temper & Fence
If one
wants to change then its not only about knowing what you need to change but
also how to do and later start doing it, there comes the result.
There
are many out there who say "I can't control my anger", "I have
short temper" but does nothing about it all the way even after knowing it.
All it needs a simple try .
As i
was browsing for something i just came across a beautiful short story which made
me think again in angry situations... to control yourselves.. I just wanted to
share it using my blog as a platform.. so that some more can be benefited out
of it.
Here it
is..
"A
long time ago there was a boy. He was smart, talented and handsome. However, he
was very selfish and his temper was so difficult, that nobody wanted to be
friends with him. Often he got angry and said various hurtful things to people
around him.
The boy‘s
parents very concerned about his bad temper. They considered what they could do
and one day the father had an idea. He called his son and gave him a hammer and
a bag of nails. The father said: „Every time you get angry, take a nail and
drive into that old fence as hard as you can.”
The
fence was very tough and the hammer was heavy, nevertheless the boy was so
furious that during the very first day he has driven 37 nails.
Day
after day, week after week, the number of nails was gradually decreasing. After
some time, the boy started to understand that holding his temper is easier that
driving nails into the fence.
One day
the boy didn‘t need hammer and nails anymore as he learned to hold his temper
perfectly. So he came to his father and told about his achievement. „Now every
time, when you hold your temper all day long, pull out one nail“.
Much
time has passed. At last the boy could be proud of himself as all the nails
were gone. When he came to his father and told about this, he offered to come
and take a careful look at the fence. „You did a good job, my son, but pay your
attention to the holes that left from the nails. The fence will never be the
same. The same happens when your say hurtful things to people, as your words
leave scars in their hearts like those holes in the fence. Remember, we need to
treat everyone with love and respect, because it doesn‘t matter, that you say
you are sorry, the scars will not disappear."
Source:Moral
story about character
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