#How Much do you care about yourself??
In our day to day life we always try to make others happy with expecting something out of it , it may be physical or materialistic. (Exception for people who make others happy to make themselves happy but expect nothing)
These days people are really living to impress someone by leaving themselves behind.
Its being so viral that , people started buying things which they don't require but like to posses just because some of the people around them are having it and they ( those foolish people) strongly believe that they will be recognized only if they posses somethings like that.
Here there are two points to be noticed:
1. People are not really trying to make others happy but lurked truth is they are trying to search their happiness in others which is very dangerous to an individual in person and people around them.
Example : People dressing in some award functions, many of them actually don't come there because they got award but by dressing in various disastrous outfits they think that they can grab some attention of people around them which makes that individual happy.
2. And People are doing it just because others are doing it , which might lead to destructive consequences when they are not received similarly well as your predecessor.
Example : We see many people following style of celebrities and failing to impress as they are not received well as the celebrity they followed.
TO elucidate the above statements , One is more important to thyself, Then comes everyone. Its practically proven theory that if you cant make yourself happy then there in none in this world who are happy with you. Many of them out there thinks that this is a materialistic theory but i would like to quote an old Indian folk story regarding this theory :
There is a man who is crossing a river wiht the help of a stick along with his wife , child, some clothes and some amount of money to assure his life after relocating to the other side of the river. By the time he reached to middle , the river started to flow heavily which increased the pressure on the man . it became very tough to him to hold his wife, child, clothes and money. So there came a point where he needs to leave something in order to lose some weight to be stable in that flow. First he left the clothes. Then with increased pressure he is subjected to leave something more so he left money bag. Like wise with increased pressure going on he left his child and lastly he left his wife as well so that he can be alive at least.
See the things which he left in an order,
1. Clothes : Because he thought he can buy them with the money he have
2. Money : Because he thought he can earn it later if he and his family get out safely
3. Child : This seems a tough call but this is practical choice of any person because he can have one more child.
4. Wife : This is because, i think he felt he is more important to himself than any other at that point of time and situation.
Many out there doesn't really accept this moral of the story but it is what major section of people do when they are subjected to such life and death situations. But all of them say that i will save them and i don't even care about my death , understand that they tell the above sentence just because they strongly believe nothing like that happens to them.
Its you who should be matters most for you, then think about people around you. When you think you are good enough then you can create some good vibrations around you which helps to build a wonderful world.
See the missile man Abdul kalam, He beleived that living for nation makes himslef happy, that is the reason he was able to produce amazing results . He didn't wear any branded clothes still he was a youth icon, He didn't follow any celebrities hair style but his hairstyle became a trend, He didn't millions of dollars still he was very happy.
Talk to yourself, make yourself comfortable with you , make yourself happy genuinely . That definitely leads us to a better world.
#MindMac
These days people are really living to impress someone by leaving themselves behind.
- Some try to dress in worst and uncomfortable outfits so that people around them will be impressed.
- Some try to do different kind of stunts so that people feel great about them
- While some others are busy in impressing people by pretending they know everything even knowing nothing.
Its being so viral that , people started buying things which they don't require but like to posses just because some of the people around them are having it and they ( those foolish people) strongly believe that they will be recognized only if they posses somethings like that.
Here there are two points to be noticed:
1. People are not really trying to make others happy but lurked truth is they are trying to search their happiness in others which is very dangerous to an individual in person and people around them.
Example : People dressing in some award functions, many of them actually don't come there because they got award but by dressing in various disastrous outfits they think that they can grab some attention of people around them which makes that individual happy.
2. And People are doing it just because others are doing it , which might lead to destructive consequences when they are not received similarly well as your predecessor.
Example : We see many people following style of celebrities and failing to impress as they are not received well as the celebrity they followed.
TO elucidate the above statements , One is more important to thyself, Then comes everyone. Its practically proven theory that if you cant make yourself happy then there in none in this world who are happy with you. Many of them out there thinks that this is a materialistic theory but i would like to quote an old Indian folk story regarding this theory :
There is a man who is crossing a river wiht the help of a stick along with his wife , child, some clothes and some amount of money to assure his life after relocating to the other side of the river. By the time he reached to middle , the river started to flow heavily which increased the pressure on the man . it became very tough to him to hold his wife, child, clothes and money. So there came a point where he needs to leave something in order to lose some weight to be stable in that flow. First he left the clothes. Then with increased pressure he is subjected to leave something more so he left money bag. Like wise with increased pressure going on he left his child and lastly he left his wife as well so that he can be alive at least.
See the things which he left in an order,
1. Clothes : Because he thought he can buy them with the money he have
2. Money : Because he thought he can earn it later if he and his family get out safely
3. Child : This seems a tough call but this is practical choice of any person because he can have one more child.
4. Wife : This is because, i think he felt he is more important to himself than any other at that point of time and situation.
Many out there doesn't really accept this moral of the story but it is what major section of people do when they are subjected to such life and death situations. But all of them say that i will save them and i don't even care about my death , understand that they tell the above sentence just because they strongly believe nothing like that happens to them.
Its you who should be matters most for you, then think about people around you. When you think you are good enough then you can create some good vibrations around you which helps to build a wonderful world.
See the missile man Abdul kalam, He beleived that living for nation makes himslef happy, that is the reason he was able to produce amazing results . He didn't wear any branded clothes still he was a youth icon, He didn't follow any celebrities hair style but his hairstyle became a trend, He didn't millions of dollars still he was very happy.
Talk to yourself, make yourself comfortable with you , make yourself happy genuinely . That definitely leads us to a better world.
#MindMac
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