#Comparison

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Origin : The word  Compare known to be emerged from Latin word Comp-Par which means to place together.

We compare many things in daily life. for instance say you are planning to buy a car or a bike , before that you do much more research than a scientist to get better details and short list them according your required criteria then compare them to make out your final decision. So basically comparison is be done when there are two similar things with minor differences between them.

Based on the above explanation given " Comparison is applicable only to non living things more specifically artificial things because there will be many products which are almost same but with traces of differences". Strictly Comparison is not applicable for Human Beings or living things.

Observe a fact that no two individuals on the planet have similar finger prints, this clearly indicates that every individual is more or less unique except having basic physical body structure. So technically you cannot compare to unique objects. But sadly we are used to compare human beings as well. 
Example, 
#1. Comparing a son to his father ( Makes son more pressurized to reach expectations )
#2. Comparing a student to his classmate ( student may develops inferior complex )
#3. Comparing an employee with his colleague ( easily frustrated and productivity and quality may loss).

It doesn't stop here but travels more deeper

##Many of us compare our life with others .... Which is unhealthy kind of living practice and sometimes it may lead to loss of our life as well. 

This is not making any sense, right??? Let me give an example here ,

A person who wants to be a hero goes to a director and asks to give him a chance in a film. The director considers his request and asks the him to show what all he can do. The person starts acting like lets say Will Smith and to be honest he does it very well. The director appreciates about his act but clearly rejects him to be a hero in his next film. Can you guess why??
Even the person was surprised and asked the same question " Why was he rejected". The directors ans was " You did very well like Will Smith but if at all i want to make a film with Will Smith i would definitely approach him not you and Industry Already has a Will Smith why it needs you?. So you are rejected". As simple as that why do you want to be alike an existing , when you can be an unique in this world. 

Let us talk about a women who lives in a community and she needs to attend a party of his neighbors to night, She travels entire world to purchase a unique model costume to wear it and be special among others but the same lady wants her son Rahul to be like her neighbors son Rohan and demands him to be like him??? Why this difference between attire and her son?? When she tends to differ herself from neighbors then she should also know that her son is unique and should find his interests and support him in doing well in those ares he is good. Which makes a sense of constructive parentism in vice -versa it leads to develop a inferior complex in Rahul which is destructive parentism.

So know that every individual including you are unique.Know your abilities, discover your strengths, kindle your creativity, organize your life and most importantly Try to live as you are and also let others live as they are. 




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